So, you finally got the girl and can now live happily ever after! Right? I mean, all of your past relationships have ended miserably, but hey, this one’s different! You can feel it… this time everything will work out for the best!
While there is a slim chance that your current girlfriend will be “the one” and your relationship with her will turn out to be perfect, it’s more likely that you will have to face many struggles. And if you can’t handle them, they will tear your relationship apart. Well, at least with the attitude mentioned above.
It doesn’t really matter how perfect everything seems in the beginning, everyone will sooner or later encounter some adversity in their relationship. And if you both can’t resolve this issues you’re going to face, you’re going to end up on the single market again.
Now, I’m not telling you all of this to make you paranoid nor am I trying hint to you that your relationships will be doomed from the get-go. All I’m saying is that it’s a bit naïve to jump head first into a relationship expecting everything to turn out fine. It’s better to know a couple of things about relationships so you will be prepared for the worst and actually know how to avoid some situations or deal with others.
A new relationship will bring new exciting adventures into your life. It will make you experience situations that will be new to you. But you will also encounter shit you had to go through before. You will have fights with her, you will make stupid mistakes she’s going to be pissed about. You will find little things about her that irritate you. You will have to go through all of this and come out on top to make this relationship last. And if it lasts, there is still no guarantee that it will stay this way till the end.
That’s why this little book will help you to deal with the “relationship stuff” so you will stay together with your dream girl and actually keep her attracted to you.
Also, just so you know. I will repeat (and expand on) some important topics that were covered in Rules of the Alpha Male. This way you will have a better overview of how they fit into a relationship and you won’t have to go looking for them in the main book.
We basically covered the fundamentals of a relationship in the main book, this one will just help you to dive a bit deeper into the subtleties and hopefully give you a better understanding how a successful relationship should look like.
On a final note: The purpose of this book isn’t to keep you together with your girlfriend at all costs. It is to provide you with the necessary tools and mindset to help you “survive” your relationships. So when you happen to break up, it’s because of your individual differences and not because she considers you a wuss.
